Women are always debating about when is the right time to have sex with a new man. How many dates do you wait? How many days/weeks/month do you wait. Lets face it the days of waiting till marriage are long gone. But when is the right time to give up the goods? Some say 30 days, many say 90 days, most say once you both have agreed to commit to one another. I personal agree with the MOST, once you’re committed.

You see many women give up the goods way too soon causing them to never make it to the commitment stage. The reason for this is men don’t want to settle down with fast chicks. In their minds they are thinking, “if she gave it to me that quick she probably gave it to all the rest just as quick”. This is probably not true, but most won’t stick around long enough to figure that out.

When it comes to settling down and having a committed relationship most men tend to be very picky. They aren’t going to bring home just any random chick to meet mom. When it comes to making a women his own whether it’s his girlfriend or his wifey he’s going to want someone respectable and with a good reputation.

If you’re a woman just looking to have fun, by all means enjoy yourself and do you. However, if your a single woman looking to settle down you’re going to need to play a little hard to get. Take your time, get to know each other, show him you respect yourself and he’ll respect you more in return. I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, “Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free!”. In other words why is a man going to settle down with you when he can get the goods without the commitment.