Porn Tips For The Ladies
LISTEN up, ladies: if your man is into porn, chances are he secretly fantasizes about you being his personal porn star. And while the idea may seem icky to you at first, the truth is you can learn a few basic tricks from the pros that will satisfy both you and your man without making you feel like a ho. Ready?
Demonstrate enthusiasm. Nothing will turn your lover more than seeing how much you want him. Speak up if have to (throw in a little sexy talk here and there), but more importantly, he has to see that you really are raring to get dirty with him.
Love your body. When a man is aroused, the last thing on his mind is you worrying about your jiggly thighs or less-than-perky boobs. All he wants to see is your soft, silky skin on his, your naked flesh quivering with each thrust…you get the idea. Show him that you enjoy being naked as much as he enjoys seeing you naked — that’s a major turn-on for him.
Push your buttons. No one else knows how to make yourself cum the way you do, so try masturbating in front of your partner. This will send his libido through the roof, and the memory of you putting on a live sex show just for him will stay embedded in his mind for a long time. If this makes you a tad uncomfy, try doing it in low light. For the more daring gals, you can use sex toys and other props. One rule to follow, though: your man is not allowed to touch you or touch himself until you’re done.
Get into details. Men like hearing their lovers tell them exactly what they want. “I love it when you…” or “Place your fingers here…” are good starts. If you aren’t sure of what to say, write down a script you can use, but it has to contain directions to what you actually like, and it should sound natural.
Doll up. Men are visual creatures, and porn stars use this to their full advantage. Instead of wearing your everyday shirt/sweats/nightgown to bed, kick up the heat by slipping into racy lingerie and showing up in the bedroom well-groomed. Tip: dress as if this were your first sack session with your man. This will help rekindle his lust for you, especially if you’re in a long-term relationship.
Throw a curveball. If you already know what works for him, shake up the routine a little bit and try a few new moves on his johnson (or his other hot spots). There’s something naughty about doing your partner in a slightly different way, which can be a massive turn-on. Careful, though: save the more shocking moves for later — you don’t want to jolt your man cold.
With a little practice, you can amp up the heat in your lovemaking sessions. Given time, you could even top your lover’s favorite porn star!









