Women are always debating about when is the right time to have sex with a new man. How many dates do you wait? How many days/weeks/month do you wait. Lets face it the days of waiting till marriage are long gone. But when is the right time to give up the goods? Some say 30 days, many say 90 days, most say once you both have agreed to commit to one another. I personal agree with the MOST, once you’re committed.

You see many women give up the goods way too soon causing them to never make it to the commitment stage. The reason for this is men don’t want to settle down with fast chicks. In their minds they are thinking, “if she gave it to me that quick she probably gave it to all the rest just as quick”. This is probably not true, but most won’t stick around long enough to figure that out.

When it comes to settling down and having a committed relationship most men tend to be very picky. They aren’t going to bring home just any random chick to meet mom. When it comes to making a women his own whether it’s his girlfriend or his wifey he’s going to want someone respectable and with a good reputation.

If you’re a woman just looking to have fun, by all means enjoy yourself and do you. However, if your a single woman looking to settle down you’re going to need to play a little hard to get. Take your time, get to know each other, show him you respect yourself and he’ll respect you more in return. I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, “Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free!”. In other words why is a man going to settle down with you when he can get the goods without the commitment.

LISTEN up, ladies: if your man is into porn, chances are he secretly fantasizes about you being his personal porn star. And while the idea may seem icky to you at first, the truth is you can learn a few basic tricks from the pros that will satisfy both you and your man without making you feel like a ho. Ready?

Demonstrate enthusiasm. Nothing will turn your lover more than seeing how much you want him. Speak up if have to (throw in a little sexy talk here and there), but more importantly, he has to see that you really are raring to get dirty with him.

Love your body. When a man is aroused, the last thing on his mind is you worrying about your jiggly thighs or less-than-perky boobs. All he wants to see is your soft, silky skin on his, your naked flesh quivering with each thrust…you get the idea. Show him that you enjoy being naked as much as he enjoys seeing you naked — that’s a major turn-on for him.

Push your buttons. No one else knows how to make yourself cum the way you do, so try masturbating in front of your partner. This will send his libido through the roof, and the memory of you putting on a live sex show just for him will stay embedded in his mind for a long time. If this makes you a tad uncomfy, try doing it in low light. For the more daring gals, you can use sex toys and other props. One rule to follow, though: your man is not allowed to touch you or touch himself until you’re done.

Get into details. Men like hearing their lovers tell them exactly what they want. “I love it when you…” or “Place your fingers here…” are good starts. If you aren’t sure of what to say, write down a script you can use, but it has to contain directions to what you actually like, and it should sound natural.

Doll up. Men are visual creatures, and porn stars use this to their full advantage. Instead of wearing your everyday shirt/sweats/nightgown to bed, kick up the heat by slipping into racy lingerie and showing up in the bedroom well-groomed. Tip: dress as if this were your first sack session with your man. This will help rekindle his lust for you, especially if you’re in a long-term relationship.

Throw a curveball. If you already know what works for him, shake up the routine a little bit and try a few new moves on his johnson (or his other hot spots). There’s something naughty about doing your partner in a slightly different way, which can be a massive turn-on. Careful, though: save the more shocking moves for later — you don’t want to jolt your man cold.

With a little practice, you can amp up the heat in your lovemaking sessions. Given time, you could even top your lover’s favorite porn star!

HERE’S the bitter truth: regardless of what the hype says about swallowing your lover’s orgasmic fluid aka. cum, there is a high likelihood that it tastes funky at some point. Or maybe yours does. So what can you do?

First off, forget about commercial flavor supplements. Their product claims are unsubstantiated and potentially dangerous because of the artificial ingredients incorporated into them, starting with preservatives alone. Your best bet is to modify your lifestyle and diet, naturally.

Here are some tips to help you and your lover kick up the flavor of your love juices. They’re pretty easy to follow, and most are actually part of a healthy lifestyle.

Drink plenty of water. 1-2 liters daily will help flush out all the toxins in your body, some of which add odor to your secretions.

Cut out caffeine, nicotine, drugs, and alcohol. All of these substances pollute your system and also add to your odor.

Eat plenty of fruit and vegetables. That being said, avoid asparagus, broccoli, and cauliflower — these can make your fluids smell funkier. As for fruit, lemon, papaya, mangoes, pineapple, cranberry, melons, apples, and grapes are highly recommended because of their natural sweetness. Many people also swear by drinking at least a liter of natural pineapple juice daily.

Cut down on red meat and dairy. These add to bodily odor and also give your fluids a stronger, saltier flavor. Unless that’s what you want, you’re better off replacing your protein intake with lean chicken and turkey.

Stay away from strong spices like onion and garlic. Their flavors are quickly imparted into your system, and just as easily exuded. Stick with more mellow spices and herbs such as parsley, celery, and wheatgrass, as well as cinnamon, peppermint, and cardamom.

Eat as much natural food as possible. Avoid processed and junk food, because they contain unhealthy chemicals that may adversely alter your natural scent.

If all else fails, get yourself checked. Stinky emissions may be a sign of poor health or an infection.

Your body processes food anytime between 12 and 24 hours, so time your recommended food consumption accordingly. Better yet, you can incorporate some of these tips into your regular habits so you’re never caught off-guard. After all, spontaneity in sex is always delicious.

WHEN it comes to dressing sexy, every woman should have one of these. It’s the Little Black Dress, aka. LBD. It’s the quintessential fuck-me and to-hell-with-the-other-women dress, and can instantly vamp up your look.

As sexy as the LBD can be, many men prefer their dates, girlfriends, and wives to sport an understated, not slutty look. Even if they tend to drool over sexy celebrities, models, and porn stars wearing practically nothing but a black shoestring, what can really ignite their passion for you is to show just a hint of skin.

Whether you decide to show off your long legs, smooth shoulders, toned arms, fleshy cleavage, full curves, or your flat abs, the idea is to show only one or two of these and leave the rest to his imagination. The mystery this creates will drive him wild and leave him wanting to see more of you. At the same time, this also embeds in his mind that you are a classy woman who reveals herself to only a select few, him included. This will make him feel special and privileged to be with you.

So the next time you decide to slip into something black and sexy for your man, consider how it will make him feel. Show too much and you’ll come off as cheap, ultimately turning him off. Show too little and you’ll look uptight or worse, matronly. Tease him with just the right amount of exposure, and your LBD is bound to be ripped off of you by the end of the evening. Good luck.

MANY of us red-blooded males and females get turned on by sexy talk. Of course, there are some who are naturally adept in the art of lingual lovemaking (especially the hardcore parts), but there are more who shy away even from the basic stuff.

The truth is, it’s a intimidating to be downright candid about our intimate thoughts, and the idea of being rejected by the person you want most can be nothing short of mortifying.

In this light, we’ve come up with a few key phrases to help you get started. But as with any romantic overture, don’t overdo it or you’ll end up sounding like a complete phony.

You’re so beautiful / handsome / gorgeous. Nothing can easily melt your partner as fully appreciating how they look. This works best when you know they’ve taken extra trouble to look good for you, or when you catch them completely off-guard.

You. Three letters can quickly communicate your complete focus on your partner, no matter what you are talking about. For example, instead of asking “How was work?” try asking “How was your day?” That simple substitution can easily change a random question into something more personal and meaningful — and sexy as hell.

I missed you today. You can’t get enough of your partner’s company, and you have been thinking of him or her for the most part of your day. Being wanted is a huge turn-on.

I love the way you… / I love how you… / You’re so… Admiration is another quick way to stoke your partner’s fire; you’re feeding their ego by expressing your appreciation. But you have to make sure that you are sincere, or your praise will fall flat. Even better, find something unique or obscure about your partner, and express your appreciation for it. “The way you say my name turns me on,” is a good example.

Your partner’s name. This sums up all of your partner’s uniqueness. And most of its impact rests on how you say it. The easiest way to apply this is to inject his or her name in random moments during casual conversation, then drop your voice a notch lower when you say it. “There was this book that I saw in the shop today, Joanna, and I thought I’d get it for you.” Do this right, and your partner will soon be moaning your name.

And there you go. These are the basic statements that you can turn on your partner with without sounding scripted or cheesy. With a little practice and timing, you can easily light his or her fire without them finding out how.

If you’re on Frisky Spot Blog it’s likely that you want to read tips on how to be a sex queen in the sack. You probably want to become some kind of pro when it comes to having sex which include special techniques, doing it under special circumstances and turning any moment into a steamy sex encounter at the drop of a dime.

Perhaps you’re also, here to catch up on some naughty, celebrity news but what we got for you today are some cool, sex advice for all you naughty girls out there that want to take it up a notch.

Naughty Sex Moves, Techniques & Tips:

• -Do It In a Tiny Space.

Nothing tells him more that you just can’t wait to have him when you shove him into a tiny closet and ravish your guy.

It’s incredibly primal and spontaneous. The fact, that you may not be able to take off all your clothes makes it even hotter because it indicates to the desperate lust. Let him take control as he maneuvers your body by your hips. These are the kinds of sex acts that are memorable. Another hot, tiny space is the bathroom.

• -Sneak A Quickie In a Crowded House.

If you’re visiting your parents house over the weekend or live with a roommate or the likes. Situations that won’t allow you enough privacy are great opportunities for silent, naughty quickies.

The best way to go about this is to lie down in a spooning position and get it on. If you advice your guy to move his hips in a wide circle and the bed won’t creak and you won’t alert the people amongst you that you’re getting a little busy. Also, just the very though that just “maybe” you may be caught is thrilling and exhilarating.

• -Bring Out His Old Skate Board.

Yes, believe it or not his old skateboard makes for a great sex toy. (Guys seem to keep their skateboards around) if not you can get a really cheap one for less than 15 dollars.

Here’s what you do: Throw a towel or small blanket over it, lay on it so that you’re facing down then allow him to enter you from behind. He’ll be thinking you’re so clever and that you’re just creative with your bedroom skills. Another way to use the good old skateboard is to have him sit on it and then you straddle him. Sure, the skateboard is going to be moving back and forth but it’s equally awesome. Put those wheels to good use!

• -Be A Multitasker.

Guys just love to watch women pleasure themselves. Well, how about pleasuring yourself while you also, pleasure him? He’ll be experiencing double the ecstasy.

Here’s the best way to do it: Lay side by side, though you should be lower and in close proximity to his package. Commence to give him oral and with both your mouth and hand, once he seems to be enjoying himself, with your other hand reach down and start playing with yourself, while you continue to rub him. This position allows him to have a good view of what your doing with yourself. You don’t need to worry at this point if you’re being precis with your technique on him. He’s enjoying the view. This will have pretty turned on and in no time he’ll reach climax while thinking what an incredible, naughty and sexy champ you are.

• -Create An “Edge” With A View.

We don’t want to get you in trouble since public displays of erections and such can land you in a jail cell. But it’s so hot that we’ve figured a way around this possible complication.

This is what you want to do, take off your pants and leave your top on, lean out an open window so he can enter you from behind. People may be watching but they may be scratching their heads, wondering what in hell you’re doing. You can also, press yourself against a close window where it gives people a view but you’re facing your lover, making it a more intimate encounter. (If you live next to small children wait until late night to try out these exhibitionist moves.) However, it’s something you don’t want to rule out because the thrill you’ll be feeling will be utterly fantastic.

So there you have it! Some really cool, sexy and naughty tips, advice and techniques in a nutshell. Now all you have to do is put them to use. You won’t be sorry and he’ll be absolutely dazzled by your extraordinaire and clever sexy ways.

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