Forbes recently released the top 20 most miserable cities to live in. There were 10 factors that was included to compile this list and here are a few: unemployment, crime, taxes, people’s blood pressure, weather, and commute times. Here are the top three cities and a few reasons why they are at that spot.

1. Stockton, Cali: Unemployment rate has not improved in the last 3 years with an average of 14.3%, which is the third worst city in the country. Housing market took a big hit with house prices down 58% over the same amount of time. Other problems are the city is high sales and income taxes and service cuts to help close massive budget shortfalls.

2. Miami, FL: The only two things that is keeping this city out of the top slot is the sun and lack of state income taxes. One in every 14 homes was foreclosed last year. Lets not forget to mention the corruption in government officials in this city. 404 government officials have been convicted of crimes this decade in South Florida.

3. Merced, Calif: Average unemployment is at 16.2% since 2008 and is the highest in the U.S. The home prices have dropped around 64% as well. Merced has been hit harder than other areas of the country.

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Hello you need to look around, what are you doing? I bet not you’re not dating. Have you gotten so busy with your life at work or your focus is on other activities, you have left time to form a relationship with anyone? So if you’re one of the many people out there looking for love without a minute to spare, here are a few tips that could help you to make the connection you crave.

1. Slow down. If you don’t have time for drinks with friends, phone calls home, or a get-to-know-you session with the hot guy or girl from the newsstand who keeps asking you out, then you are clearly spreading yourself too thin.
2. Say no. If you’re so booked up that you can’t even arrange an hour for coffee, then you might have a problem saying no. It’s not always feasible to turn down work, but try to cut back on other commitments if you can. The best part of saying “no” is that you don’t even need an excuse! If you simply offer a flat-out “no” when people ask you for favors or participation, you’ll often find that others don’t know how to respond, and will actually accept without question.
3. Make time for yourself. You can’t possibly hope to make time for love if you don’t first see to yourself. Try penciling in a little R&R for yourself every week join a class at the gym, spend a couple of hours getting pampered at the spa, or even sit down with a good book.
4. Change your focus. The reason you’re unable to make a love connection is that you’re focused on other things.

In life, attitude is everything. If you think you can’t make time for love, then you can. It helps if you set up mental road-blocks is no way to start a new undertaking. So make an effort to believe that love is possible, that you can squeeze it into your busy schedule, and you will find that your willingness to change. But if you can’t you will always have Mobile Porn to keep you company.

You’re in a bar; you’ve just spotted a good looking Single Guy that you want to talk too. How do you get him over? The first step to attracting men, is eye contact.

“The look” how to do it right.
What you ideally want to do is one quick look in his direction, but then another where you hold his eye contact for just one second longer so that he registers your interest.

Lose the bitch face!
Sometimes women’s default facial expression gives off the impression of “If you come up to me, I’ll rip your face off”. If you want guys to feel relaxed and OK with approaching you, it’s so important to smile and look approachable. You can still be sexy and look like you’re having a good time. Women laughing and smiling is a massive aphrodisiac; that’s why men instinctively want to make women laugh, because it turns us on.

The last resort: making the move yourself
It’s a lot simpler to do that you would imagine. There are generally two kinds of conversation starters: compliments and questions. As far as compliments gotell him he has a nice shirt, and it brings out the color of his eyes. And Asking for favors, like asking for his help will make him feel manly.

It doesn’t always take women as fast as men to realize they might be in a bad relationship. If you even have to question it, most likely your gut is telling you something, but here are some Red Flags to watch out for.
1. He doesn’t want to introduce you to family, friends or associates. If he doesn’t want to introduce you to the people he’s close to, then he wants to keep you a secret for some reason, either because he isn’t proud of you and isn’t that into you, or because he may have another girl that he’s already seeing.
2. He doesn’t make you a priority. If it often seems like you are shuffled down in his list of priorities, underneath friends, family, work, and other things, then it’s a sure sign that either something sketchy is up or he doesn’t see you as an important part of his life.
3. He isn’t close with his family and has zero or very few friends. Building and maintaining lasting relationships is an important skill and requires selflessness and effort to keep up. If someone is unable to do that, or has no desire to, then what makes you think he is capable of keeping a lasting relationship with you? He may have issues with intimacy or personal connection, or it just simply may not be something that’s important to him. Either way, red flag!
4. He is very secretive: If he appears to be more secretive than you think is natural, i.e. is elusive about many of his plans, seems secretive with his cellphone and laptop and keeps them away from you, ultra private about his personal life or job… Something fishy is going on! He may not be keeping secrets from you or living a double-life. Not something you want to be a part of.
5. He is rude to waiters and staff: If he’s rude to waiters or staff or other people in the service industry, that’s a sign of his true character. He is putting on a front to woo you, but soon that façade will crumble and this other side will reveal itself in due time watch out!

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Ladies have been known to tell the littlest, tiniest, teeniest white lie. From time to time. Or ummm…every day. We hate to admit it, but it does happen. Want to know more here are the top lies that women tell.

1. “I had a nice time.” — Ummm, yeah. Sometimes you just say stuff to be nice. Then again, sometimes you say things in order to just get the hell out of there. However, you can believe us if we say: “I had a really nice time, (pauses, looks at you expectantly while possibly inching nearer…).” That means that we really did have a nice time, and also, go ahead and kiss us already!

2. “That was…fun.” So, similar to point number one,
sometimes we say things in order to play nice. And then there are those
times that we say something just to cover up our real thoughts, which
are clearly “that was so NOT fun, I’ve had bikini waxes that were more
fun. Please let me never NEVER have to do that again.”

3. “It wasn’t that expensive.” Whether its our shoes, hair, or
purse . we love a bargain but we know the prices we pay would still
horrify you. That’s right, we’re only trying to protect you.

4. “I’m fine.” Whenever a woman says “I’m fine,” in
answer to a question, she is pretty much implying that she is not only
NOT fine. Groveling and flowers however? Might help get us closer to fine!

We all know the number ONE lie we tell.. “We don’t fake it’ Your sex is the best sex I ever had. I mean sometimes we are telling the truth, but guess you’ll never know.