
MANY of us red-blooded males and females get turned on by sexy talk. Of course, there are some who are naturally adept in the art of lingual lovemaking (especially the hardcore parts), but there are more who shy away even from the basic stuff.
The truth is, it’s a intimidating to be downright candid about our intimate thoughts, and the idea of being rejected by the person you want most can be nothing short of mortifying.
In this light, we’ve come up with a few key phrases to help you get started. But as with any romantic overture, don’t overdo it or you’ll end up sounding like a complete phony.
You’re so beautiful / handsome / gorgeous. Nothing can easily melt your partner as fully appreciating how they look. This works best when you know they’ve taken extra trouble to look good for you, or when you catch them completely off-guard.
You. Three letters can quickly communicate your complete focus on your partner, no matter what you are talking about. For example, instead of asking “How was work?” try asking “How was your day?” That simple substitution can easily change a random question into something more personal and meaningful — and sexy as hell.
I missed you today. You can’t get enough of your partner’s company, and you have been thinking of him or her for the most part of your day. Being wanted is a huge turn-on.
I love the way you… / I love how you… / You’re so… Admiration is another quick way to stoke your partner’s fire; you’re feeding their ego by expressing your appreciation. But you have to make sure that you are sincere, or your praise will fall flat. Even better, find something unique or obscure about your partner, and express your appreciation for it. “The way you say my name turns me on,” is a good example.
Your partner’s name. This sums up all of your partner’s uniqueness. And most of its impact rests on how you say it. The easiest way to apply this is to inject his or her name in random moments during casual conversation, then drop your voice a notch lower when you say it. “There was this book that I saw in the shop today, Joanna, and I thought I’d get it for you.” Do this right, and your partner will soon be moaning your name.
And there you go. These are the basic statements that you can turn on your partner with without sounding scripted or cheesy. With a little practice and timing, you can easily light his or her fire without them finding out how.